Not
everyone will think you are awesome,….. and that’s perfectly OK!! Hard to accept
but no matter how awesome you think you are or have heard it one thousand times
over, there may be a few or just that one and only person that will disagree.
Accept it and move on. It really is ok, and life will turn out alright. Really.
It's ok to
have a “few” flaws and not be everyone’s cup of tea or coffee for that matter.
Embrace it. It’s probably them and not you!! In any event, rather than
obsessing about it, trying to be a people pleaser, converter or worse downright
ignoring it, reflect, accept and move on.
- Stay true to your values – ALWAYS. Don’t ever change them, tweak them or set them aside to fit into someone else’s mold or awesomeness definition. Do you. The right people will appreciate it, accept it and love you for it. Those are the ones you want in your corner. Let the others go. Your values are important and something to treasure. They make you who you are and is your passport in this world. Don’t change them…. unless they are out of whack. If not, protect them with all your might.
- Be yourself. Be proud of who you are. You are unique. There is no one else like you. Be confident. Don’t be a people pleaser! You can’t stand out if you are always trying to fit in (thanks Dr. Seuss!). It’s ok to be different. It’s ok that some do not accept you for who you are. Love yourself for all your goodness, kindness, quirkiness, mistakes and substance. That is all you. If you don’t already, then take time to love it. Love YOU. If you need further proof, see… http://tehanimott.blogspot.com/2013/04/be-yourself.html
- Other people’s opinions are just that…. other people’s. Don’t let anyone else’s opinion of you get you down. They are entitled to their opinion and you don’t have to accept it. Move on! Don’t allow the opinions of others affect you negatively. It’s quite alright to reflect on it but don’t do it for too long. We are all a work-in-progress so it’s important to reflect on room for improvements on ourselves. It doesn’t mean beating yourself up though. You need the right amount of space and time to reflect and truly move on. Pay attention to where it’s coming from as well. Some opinions maybe important but some belong in the trash.
It’s human
nature to look for affection and validation in our day to day lives and
relationships. We must come to terms though, that we will not get the love and
affection ALL THE TIME, regardless of how awesome and amazing we are. You will
not be everyone’s cup of tea and that may be a good thing.
